PRETTY RW and ZJ were born twelve months and two days apart. It was the most amazing déjà-vu I have ever had ~ returning to the same hospital ward, the same nurses attending, the same doctor, at the same time of year, to the same overwhelming memories of surgery and recovery and new life and heart-smacking love. It was the best. It seems so appropriate that every February we get to celebrate Valentine's Day and the next day the birth of our firstborn son. Two days later we celebrate the birth of our second son (and three months later the birth of our third). February is certainly a love ly month for us. On RW's birthday we surprised the boys by taking them on a whale-watching boat ride on the ocean. It was a gorgeous sunny afternoon, unseasonably warm and perfectly calm for a day on the water. We saw small boats, naval ships, Coast Guard cruisers, gigantic cargo ships (clearly from China), lighthouses, beautiful h...