Today is my 41st birthday! Forty was a fantastic year and I am taking a few minutes to record what I have learned to be true over the past year(s). I am also making this list of aha's (some silly, some serious) so I can remind myself over and over again in the next decade! ON APPEARANCE 1. Fit, Fabulous, and 40 became my mantra. At least I was 40. :) 2. I am no longer doing my makeup to look like I am not wearing any. Who am I kidding? 3. Being a tall woman, I used to try to shrink myself and never wore heels. Not anymore. Heels and wedges are my new best friends and the added height makes me feel strong. 4. It has been decided I will have long hair until I turn 60. My family agrees. No more short, mushroom bobs - ever. ( Andie MacDowell is my hair and aging icon.) 5. A girl can never have enough neutral colors in her wardrobe. They go with everything and never look dated. I can add pops of color through accessories. 6. Every new season req